When it comes to sex, most of us end up hushing up everything that is associated with it because “log kya kahenge!” And in the milieu, we end up not knowing some sex terms that we perhaps practise in bed but yet don’t know the names of.
Here are 10 such sex terms that you’re probably too embarrassed to ask about.
1. Pearl Necklace
When your partner ejaculates on or around your neck or chest, it is known as a pearl necklace.
2. Impact Play
Any impact on the body done for sexual gratification is referred to as “impact play”. This may involve just the use of hands, nails, tongue, or teeth, or even sex accessories like whips.
When you ejaculate fluid during sex from your vagina, it is known as squirting. Contrary to popular perception that it is akin to peeing, in reality, the fluid is released from Skene’s glands. Not every woman squirts. Some squirt from clitoral stimulation while others squirt from their G-spot.
When a woman penetrates a man anally with a strap-on dildo, it is referred to as pegging.
Aftercare implies checking in with your partner about whether the sex you just had felt good and safe, and whether the both of you feel safe physically and emotionally. This may involve cuddling and tending to bruises, if any, things that felt weird and both of you, and discuss the sex experience in general.
Queening is just a glamorous name for sitting on someone’s face.
When air escapes from the vagina, often during or after penetration, it is termed as queefing.
Also referred to as tribbing or tribadism, it involves two same-sex partners, mostly two women, rubbing against each other’s vulvas. It may also involve one vulva owner rubbing it against other parts of the partner’s body like thighs or buttocks. Here, the intersecting legs of a partner resembles a scissors, which is where scissoring gets its name.
9. Edge Play
The term implies kinky sexual acts that do wonders in pushing your boundaries to the edge – a thrilling experience for some. These depend on personal choices because what is exhilarating varies among individuals. Make sure that you use a safe word while indulging in safe play, so you don’t overstep personal limits and boundaries of your partner.
Felching means sucking up of semen out of an orifice, not necessarily by a woman. A partner can ejaculate inside the vagina or anus of his partner and then suck out his own semen using his mouth. Swallowing the semen is optional here.
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