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This is considered to be a fatal argument that no bahu can justify. But don’t let it affect you. Consult your gynaecologist and assess your fertility. Your doctor will give all the information you need based on your history and a physical examination. Collecting medical proof that you have more than enough time to conceive is vital in such cases. And this information can actually help you with family planning.
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Age, for some reason, is still a major element when it comes to the life decisions of an Indian woman. From getting married at the “correct” age to pregnancies, everything needs to follow a schedule. While that may have worked for older generations, today’s times have changed.
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Reproduction is no longer our only goal as human beings. Several couples plan not to have kids for a number of reasons. Some see it as a big commitment that will completely change their lifestyle. Some argue that their careers are more important and a child can derail their ambitions. Also, the financial pressure of raising a child in today’s day and age is certainly high.
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Some mothers-in-law can be diplomatic when it comes to the subject of babies. They subtly try to coax you by showing cute baby videos and shoving someone’s child in your hand just to make you see their appeal. Some MILs tend to gossip about it and be extremely passive-aggressive in their demands.
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Even if a bahu “gifts” the family with a child, she is pressured to procure a second one soon. Arguments like your child will need someone to play with, he/she needs to learn to share, having 2 kids means they take care of each other are pretty common. You may face these if you plan on having only one child.
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