Home Health Mental Health Quiz: Are You In An Abusive Marriage? Take This Quiz To Find...

Quiz: Are You In An Abusive Marriage? Take This Quiz To Find Out

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It’s Time To Take Steps If You Answer YES To More Than 8 Questions!

Indians have heard the phrase, “miyaan biwi ke beech toh yeh sab hota rehta hai” for centuries. Under the guise of “beta, thoda compromise toh karna hi padega” and “yeh toh uska pyaar hai”, marriages have normalised abuse. But gone are those days when one had to tolerate abusive spouses to make a marriage work. When two people commit to a relationship, they also open up doors to each other emotionally and mentally. This is why it's vital that your partner brings out the best in you and create a happy, healthy relationship based on mutual trust, respect and understanding. Take this quiz to find out if you’re in an abusive marriage!

1. Do you feel afraid or uncomfortable with your partner and undermine your self-esteem?
2. Is there physical or verbal abuse or a threat to hurt you or your children?
3. Does your partner check up on you constantly or insist on knowing where you are all the time or monitor your every single movement?
4. Does your partner often put you down, humiliate you, or make you feel worthless?
5. Do you feel trapped, anxious, depressed, angry and drained for long periods of time?
6. Do your partner’s emotional needs always come before yours?
7. Do you feel alone or neglected and your partner comes between you and people who are supportive of you to make you more dependent on him?
8. Does every conversation with your partner turn into an argument?
9. Does your partner say that whatever’s wrong in their life is all your fault or blames you for their bad behaviour?
10. Have you and your partner absolutely stopped communicating or have chosen to sweep things under the carpet and lie to avoid conflict?
11. Is everything you do, a reaction to your partner’s behaviour and have you forgotten how to be any other way?
12. When angry or in an argument, does your partner destroy your belongings or property?
13. Is there unilateral decision making and financial control in your partner’s hand?
14. Does your partner pressure or force you to do sexual things that you don’t want to do?
15. Are your pre-marriage and post-marriage self two different people?

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